DEAR SARA,

I remember the day this picture was taken.  I was living in Old Towne Alexandria, and Chad called to say he wanted me to meet his new girlfriend.  I was so anxious to meet you.  It was clear from the tone in his voice on the phone that he thought you were really special, even back then.


It was not hard to love you from the very beginning.  You were cute and sweet, and bubbly.  And it was clear that you two were crazy about each other.  Chad is a special guy.  And it would take a special girl to see all the genuinely wonderful qualities that he possess under that sometimes tough exterior.  You were just that girl.


Throughout the six years that you two have been together, I have never seen either of you waver in your commitment to each other.  My favorite thing about the two of you is that when I am with you, you always treat each other well.  Even after all this time.


I have loved and appreciated your kindness and spirit.  I have always felt welcomed by you into your home.  I treasure the times you and I have had the opportunity to spend time together. . . just the two of us.  Like when we went to your folks place for Thanksgiving.  And when we had tea in Leesburg after running into each other at the Cooley gallery!  And when we shopped for patio furniture for your new home.


I am delighted that you and my treasured son have decided to make a go at this marriage thing.  I think you have a strong foundation which started in genuine delight with each other, and has progressed over the years as you have made a life together.  You've traveled to Phoenix and back.  You've settled several apartments and bought a house together.  You have "parented" that crazy Murray.


My heart overflows with welcome and delight that you have decided to join this crazy family in a formal and legal way.  We're not so bad once you get used to us, and apparently you have.


So welcome to the family, my lovely daughter-in-law.  July 21st will be a special day in my life now too.  My baby boy has taken a wife.  I hope I will always be your friend.   We both love the same guy.  I wish you both so much happiness and patience and perseverance through all the times to come.  Congratuations and love to you both.